If you have ever been treated like a second class citizen, you have been discriminated against and in The United Kingdom in 2010, no-one should feel like that. We have Equal Rights, Equal Opportunities and The Human Rights Act. We are all human, we encourage humane behaviour, we celebrate cultural, ethnic and other forms of diversity, yet we still encounter discrimination. Why? How? What constitutes a second class ticket on a hostile train to Coventry? (Do you recall the expression being sent to Coventry, I think it was a Union term for those who disagreed with strike action).
In the past week a member of the Bedposts forum, a fellow accommodation provider, has made headline news because she turned away a late middle aged male gay couple, who had previously booked bed and breakfast at her establishment. Quite rightly, the nation and the greater proportion of the members of this forum were shocked that this had occurred and leaving aside personal opinion for the moment, it is illegal under the Equality Act 2006 and specifically The Equality Act (Sexual Orientation) Regulations 2007 which outlaw discrimination against lesbian, gay and bisexual people by businesses and service providers. Although Regulation 14 provides an exception for organisations relating to religion and belief, that is those whose purpose is to practise a religion or belief, to advance a religion or belief or to teach the principles of a religion or belief. It extends to those who act on behalf or under the auspices of such an organisation. It does not however extend the exception to organisations whose sole or main purpose is commercial, or those who act under a contract with and on behalf of a public authority.
It seems clear to me therefore that as a Guest House/Hotel/B&B does not exist to practise, advance or teach a religion, it does not matter that an accommodation provider holds certain religious beliefs, they must not in Law, turn anyone away for reasons defined as prohibited discrimination.
Gay Rights Activists fought hard battles for the change in the Law and all credit to them for their courage and tenacity. It is a pity that Society was such that the fight was necessary.
I deplore discrimination in any of its guises and intervention with protective legislation was the necessary course of action. Although as an accommodation provider, it makes no difference to me whether the legislation is in place or not. Guests are welcome as long as they respect my property and the private lives of guests are just that, private.
The situation that arose whereby a gay couple were turned away at the door, having made a prior booking, unbeknown to them, with an accommodation provider whose religious beliefs mean that for her she must follow God’s Will by not condoning single sex relationships, was clearly unacceptable. The embarrassment and inconvenience caused to the two gentlemen in question should not have happened. For some people the answer is clear, a B&B operating on the basis of religious conviction should not be in business, and for some the answer will be that she should have defined and concentrated her business so that she advertised especially for Christians, in which case guests would know what to expect before booking. I understand that there is at least one Gay only Hotel in the UK operating in this way. On the other hand some people might see this as discrimination of another kind.
Discrimination has tangible and intangible consequences that can be extreme and it is right that Parliament should try to prevent it. The intangible consequences include at a national level civil unrest, at a local level, disharmony within communities and at a personal level, issues such as disadvantage in the job market and psychological damage. No right minded people should therefore argue in favour of removing protective legislation, but is the law too cumbersome to deal with all of the issues properly?
Let us take a few moments to look at who might find themselves with second class tickets on a second class train to Coventry. Obviously our thoughts turn to the disabled and people from other countries with different cultures, but there are other examples too, some much less serious, but nevertheless equally inappropriate.
I am below 5 ft in height and I recall one interview that I had, before the days of Equal Opportunities, when I was asked if someone had written my job application because it was written with stature. I was not offered the job. I was quite young and very upset at the suggestion that I had not written my own application. Later I came to recognise that it was fueled by the “does she take sugar? – Little person, small brain” attitude. For a while I was very grateful for Equal Opportunities legislation, but we have all come to know of many examples where the tick box exercise does not necessarily produce the right candidate.
Should the followers of the Christian faith maintain the right to hold their views, even though they are out of step with the rest of us. I would say that they must be allowed to hold their own views, or we run the risk of turning the tables and discriminating against them. How can we reconcile permitting views that we might think are wrong or harmful in a Society where right minded people deplore discrimination?
I would hope that all right minded members of society would be prepared to say “each to his own, as long as you don’t offend my view, I won’t offend yours”.
When the Law tries to correct a wrong, it creates strict legislation, but this gets us in a muddle sometimes. In an earlier blog below, I talked about how the Law tries to to create black and white in shades of grey, or it often avoids the grey altogether, and I also observed that when the Law extends a right in one area, it inevitably removes it in another. In order to avoid discrimination are we by default legally prevented in some circumstances from celebrating diversity?
The hotel industry is vast and there is room for hotels that cater for every kind of business. We accept pets, and we make it very clear that we do, as asthmatics would wish to know before booking. We do not consider ourselves to be discriminating against asthmatics and we hope no-one would view it that way. We are simply providing a service for pet owners, who are not welcome in every establishment. A hotel that specialises in catering specifically for the disabled provides a very valuable service, many of us are constrained by the designs of older buildings and unable to do as much as we would like, for example, to accommodate wheelchairs.
Likewise, should Christians be able to accommodate people who either only wish to stay in Christians homes or don’t care either way. Would the gay couple have been spared embarrassment and inconvenience if this information had been permitted in the public domain, or would you deny Christians the right to offer accommodation for Christians?
Personally I would not wish to book into any B&B that operates with religion at its heart and equally I would not try to book at an establishment catering especially for Gays. I think it is right that some accommodation providers cater for particular groups of society, but perhaps they should not be allowed to operate exclusively. What do you think? There is plenty of scope for choice when it comes to booking accommodation.
Is the way forward for us all to say, live and let live, tell me as a business what you provide, don’t be afraid to tell me openly, it should not be against the law to say who we are and what we offer, then I won’t be embarrassed and neither will you, and hopefully we can all live in harmony and travel side by side with first class tickets in our pockets.
The Law in my view is absolute, whether we agree with it or not, but is the Law absolutely clear? I have read and re-read the legislation and I think that legally the only way you can specialise as an accommodation provider in one of the areas protected by anti-discrimination legislation is if the provision of accommodation is secondary, for example, if you were running faith courses and providing overnight accommodation. As I interpret the law at present, the moment you open your doors to the paying public and the primary purpose is commercial profit, you are not allowed to exclude anyone. If I have interpreted this correctly is there a better way, or do you think that this would be a step backwards towards promoting discrimination? Is there room for a minor amendment to the Law with a view to creating more not less harmony amongst us? Equality Law ultimately aims to prevent division.
If there are any lawyers amongst us willing to comment on any of the above points, I would be very interested, and I would be interested in your thoughts generally about the risk of turning tables, and your comments on how we can work together to overcome the danger of discrimination without creating new underdogs.
Apart from a general loathing of discrimination, I confess myself uncertain as to how very wide differences of opinion, where common ground is clearly not possible, should be treated, but I would like to close by saying that in general I believe that right minded people who have been discriminated against and know how it feels, would not wish to, in turn discriminate against others.
I hope that this blog has not offended anyone, it should hopefully be clear from what I say that in my eyes everyone is equal.
Carol
